If I Pay Child Maintenance Should I Pay For Anything Else?

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If I Pay Child Maintenance Should I Pay For Anything Else?

When it comes to child maintenance, many parents find themselves questioning not only how much they should pay but also what exactly their payments should cover. The debate often centres around whether child maintenance payments are solely for the essentials or if they should stretch to cover additional expenses such as extracurricular activities or holidays. This blog post explores the responsibilities of a parent paying child maintenance in the UK, delving into what maintenance typically covers and whether additional contributions should be considered.

Understanding Child Maintenance

Child maintenance is financial support that helps with a child’s everyday living costs when the parents do not live together. The payment is generally made by the non-resident parent to the parent who has the child living with them most of the time.

Legal Framework

In the UK, the Child Maintenance Service (CMS) can calculate the amount one parent should pay to another. However, parents can also agree on a payment amount through a family-based arrangement, which can be more flexible.

What Maintenance Covers

Primarily, child maintenance is designed to cover the basic needs of a child, including food, clothing, and housing. However, the broad category of “everyday living costs” can be somewhat ambiguous, which leads to many disputes and confusion among parents about what exactly these payments should cover.

Additional Expenses: Should You Pay More?

While child maintenance covers the essentials, there are numerous other costs involved in raising a child that may not be covered by basic maintenance payments. These include:

Educational Needs

  • School uniforms and supplies: While maintenance helps with general clothing, specific school uniforms and educational supplies might be considered additional.
  • Field trips and extracurricular activities: Often, these are not covered by child maintenance payments and can be a significant extra expense.

Medical and Health Expenses

  • Non-routine medical care: While basic medical care is covered by the NHS, private care, orthodontics, and other non-essential medical expenses might require additional contributions.
  • Therapies and special needs: Children with special educational needs or disabilities might require therapies that are not fully funded by the NHS.

Childcare Costs

  • After-school care or babysitting: These are typically considered additional costs, especially if required due to the work commitments of the resident parent.

Lifestyle and Social Activities

  • Holidays and gifts: Vacations, birthdays, and other special occasions are generally not included in child maintenance.
  • Clubs and hobbies: Participation in sports, music lessons, and other hobbies often requires extra funding.

Negotiating Additional Contributions

The key to managing expectations and responsibilities around child maintenance and additional expenses is communication. Here are some steps that can help:

Establish Open Communication

Maintaining a transparent dialogue about the child’s needs and unexpected costs can help prevent disputes.

Create a Detailed Parenting Plan

Include specifics about how to handle extra expenses. Decide if these costs will be split equally, proportionally to income, or in another fair manner.

Consider a Family-Based Arrangement

This allows more flexibility to adapt to the child’s changing needs compared to a CMS arrangement.

Seek Mediation

If disagreements arise, mediation can be a constructive way to reach a compromise.


Child maintenance is fundamentally about ensuring that children have the financial support they need from both parents. It covers the essentials but doesn’t stretch to all the costs associated with raising a child. Additional expenses, which are almost inevitable, should ideally be discussed and negotiated outside of the basic maintenance payments. By fostering an open line of communication and possibly formalising arrangements regarding these expenses, parents can better manage both the expected and unexpected costs of nurturing their children into well-rounded individuals.

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14th May 2024
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